How To Use Feng Shui To Attract Love

If you want to use Feng Shui to attract love, the first thing you need to do is to clearly identify what you want from your (future) partner.

Clear intention is the key to attracting the person you want to be with.

Therefore you should clearly know what kind of character features you want your partner to have, what kind of behaviour you want him to possess and what kind of physical features you want your partner to have.

The more specific you are, the better chances you have of attracting your dream partner.

If you are in a relationship and want to make it better, decide exactly what you want in a relationship to change or improve. Maybe you want to have more time for your spouse or you want your partner to be more attentive. Identify exactly what you want from the relationship.

Once you clearly identified what you want, you are now ready to move on to the second step in the process of using Feng Shui to attract love.

Now you need to adjust the environment to accommodate your desire. Here are the steps to take to do exactly that.

1. Messy environment and old items

There could be a number of ways the environment is hindering you from attracting love. The usual culprits are messy environment and inability to let go of the old love.

Maybe the furniture or items of your previous loved one is scattered all over the place. Don't expect to attract someone new in your life if you are not prepared to let go of the old.

Get rid of all the items that have the energy of your ex-partner. Be completely ready for a new love to enter your life.

Also eliminate the mess completely from your home, especially from your bedroom. If you stuff all the mess into drawers and boxes, it will not do any good for you. You should completely eliminate the clutter and the best way to do that is to throw away things you don't use and to put things you use in an organised manner away from your sight.

2.Artwork

It is very usual for a lonely person to have artwork which represents loneliness and therefore repels love. Such artwork could be a single tree or a flower, a single figurine of a person or animal and everything else that comes as a single unit rather than in pairs.

Look around your home carefully for these and either remove them or introduce a very similar artwork to make a pair. Place two similar figurines together, put two flowers in a vase and place two stuffed animals in your bedroom. Invite love by getting your home ready for it.

If you have a partner but your relationship is weak, here's what you should do. Only leave the pictures of two of you visible and remove the pictures where you are together with your family or relatives. This will help you improve your relationship and make more time for each other.

3.Bedroom

Bedroom is one of the most important places to search for reasons why you are lonely or suffering from bad marriage/relationship. Take a closer look at it. If you have a partner, do you have a picture of your partner in the bedroom? If not, you should definitely place it there.

Does your bedroom feel warm, relaxing and romantic? Does it feel as though it attracts love or repels it?

If you keep in your bedroom distractions such as TV, exercise equipment or other electrical equipment, get rid of them because that's not the place for such things. Your bedroom should be relaxing and warm, inviting love and romance.

If you are seeking for a new relationship, your bedroom should be favourable for the new love. So make it romantic and intimate. If one side of the bed is against the wall, no wonder you are lonely! It symbolises the room for only one person in your bed. By moving your bed away from the wall you are indicating that there is enough space for two.

Don't over-clutter your bedroom with decorative items symbolising love. It is much better to keep it spacious indicating that there is a space for two people.

If your bed has a dividing line in the middle, this could cause separation. Fix this by placing a large red sheet over the bed and you can place even more layers if you want. This will make the separation invisible.

Your bedroom should have relaxing tones of cream, cocoa, pink or taupe. You can use red color too to create intimate environment. Avoid cool colors in your bedroom. If you cannot redecorate your bedroom and you have to keep cool color walls, then place accessories and furniture of warm colors to balance it.

Avoid pictures of family members in your bedroom. Your bedroom should only be about you and your partner, so only keep the pictures with the two of you. If you have children, remove their toys from the bedroom because it may indicate that children are dominating your life, leaving no space for romance.

Make sure that there is nothing under your bed as any clutter there creates quarrels and distractions. Also, don't keep books you don't read in the bedroom as it also causes distraction and creates stress.

In general, if you want to use Feng Shui to attract love, you should keep the atmosphere of your bedroom warm, relaxing and intimate. Place pairs of things and avoid single items if you want to properly use Feng Shui to attract love. And don't forget that the most important thing you should do is to have a clear intention as to what kind of love you want to attract and what you expect from your (future) partner.

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